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3 years ago
Hello. I'm looking for advice. I'm a single mom of 2 girls. Ages 10 months and 7 years. I left the father almost a year and a half ago. It was a terrible split & things have never been civil. Aside from the problems that's caused the split he is also an active drug addict. Recently he has not been able to control his moods and actions. I've never kept our oldest daughter from him. Whenever he would ask to see her or pick her up I very rarely told him no. Until recently him and I were around each other and an argument started. He became enraged and acted completely out of control in front of our daughter. She was terrified & the last thing he said to her before I could safely get away from him was " I'm going to kill myself & it's your mother's fault". I will never forget those words and I know she never will either. I have not let him see or speak to her since and he has become completely crazy. He wants to see her but as a mother I will not and can not let myself just give in and risk exposing her to his angry outbursts and terrible things he says. He has been harassing me none stop about seeing her. I don't want to get cops or the courts involved. I've tried reasoning with him but he still has yet apologized to me for what he said and did in front of her not has he said " Can I please apologize to our daughter?" He hasn't even acknowledge that what he said was wrong. I've tried ignoring him, I've tried explaining to him to get him to realize why I won't let him see or talk to her , besides taking legal action as my last and final step is there any advice anyone has on how I can deal with this situation?